#080 Results and Relationships You can change

Have you ever experienced waking up to a day, looking at your life, and realising how far from your dreams it is?

What You’ll Learn in this Podcast:

1. How to build a powerful life with tiny decisions.
2. Getting rid of time-wasting “quick fixes”.
3. Daily belief in yourself and connecting to Allah.

Mentioned on the Podcast: (Click on Links)

• Nafs Coaching School
• Mind Health & Relationship training (Free Training & Newsletter)

Creating the Results You Want in Life

In this episode, I go into how we can get there and what changes can be made now to make it happen. 

Our life results are made up of the decisions we make, our actions and behaviours.

Sometimes, when we think about that and look at our results we start tormenting ourselves. We begin the negative self-talk and blame and we go as far as telling ourselves we’re bad decision makers. 

The more you do this, the deeper you sink into it and get stuck. What you’re stuck with is an intense emotion. 

Now, there is a solution to this emotional turmoil but it’s not quick. 

Quick fixes don’t work quickly anyway. They only waste a lot of our time, a lot of your resources, and even more of your money. 

What we want is a real solution that lasts. It’s a gradual process but over time, with small steps you will get profound results. 

The tiny steps build and compound over time as you do them. Think about building a wall, brick by brick. One at a time. 

Life is built exactly like this. 

This is the journey I take all my students and coaches through. They learn how to master the art of life. 

When you master your mind, your emotions, your behaviours, and your results, then you create the life that you want. 

So how do we get to this level of mastery?

There are three key essentials.

The first one is your relationship with Allah(swt). When things go wrong in our lives, we start feeling unsafe and insecure and often there’s this feeling of despair. 

All of it has an effect on our relationship with Allah(swt).

The second essential is your relationship with yourself. This can sometimes be the rockiest one. 

The third one is your relationship with the world. Everything around you. The people in your life. Spouses, kids, friends, colleagues, in-laws. 

When we focus on these three areas of life, then life changes. In the Science of the Nafs, we work at mastering these three essentials, because when we do, it unlocks our entire life. 

It completely changes the quality of your life. 

Unlocking the compounding effects of your life involves using two powerful tools . Your mind and belief in oneself.

Allah (swt) says, 

كُنتُمْ خَيْرَ أُمَّةٍ أُخْرِجَتْ لِلنَّاسِ

You’re the best of the people. So use your mind, dig into it and use it to serve your purpose in life. 

Then, the belief in yourself is key. The easiest way to do this is by connecting yourself to Allah and believe that you’re the best of creation. 

Do this daily. Use your mind and believe in yourself. 

The tiny steps that you take daily will have a huge impact on every area of your life. You won’t see the results immediately but when you do, you will absolutely love it. 

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About the Author: Abdul Shahid – Master Coach Trainer & Therapist of Professional Life Coaches, pioneering The Science of the Nafs Psychology model for healing, transformation and peak performance. Specialist in Mind health, wealth and mastery using this Quran and sunnah based Spiritual Psychology.