#075 How to Change the Most difficult things

In this episode, I take you through the process of transformation. It’s a journey I’ve taken many of my students through, and I’ll share some of the key insights with you. How you change the most difficult things to something that is manageable.

What You’ll Learn in this Podcast:

1. How to take charge of your life. 
2. Key principles to align to for real change to happen.
3. What the Sunnah teaches us about growth and development. 

Mentioned on the Podcast: (Click on Links)

• Nafs Coaching School
• Mind Health & Relationship training (Free Training & Newsletter)

Managing Change the Effective Way

Human beings were created with the desire for success. We all want it. 

We want to achieve our goals but when you’ve struggled for so long to make it happen that it seems impossible, you can feel incredibly frustrated. 

Have you ever wondered how to make those changes in your life? Especially if other people seem to make changes in their life so effortlessly.

A lot of times our belief in the possibility of change starts to wither. We start believing that it’s not possible.

But it is possible.

I’m a regular person, there’s nothing special about me, except that I believe in the possibility that I can change anything if I realign myself with Divine Guidance. 

There’s nothing impossible to Allah. So if I connect myself to Allah (swt), everything becomes possible. 

You don’t need a background in theology or Islamic sciences to make it happen. The level of knowledge we have doesn’t matter.

Knowledge is a prerequisite, but it’s not enough for transformation because even people with extensive knowledge can struggle with change.

I know because many of the things I share are things I struggled with at one point or another in my life.

But I’ve seen over and over again that it’s 100% possible to take charge of your life if we align ourselves to a set of principles. 

The prime one is aligning ourselves with the Divine Principle.

The next thing is the opportunities that go unnoticed. Even when opportunities are there, we think it’s not for us. 

We think it’s for someone else, for the person who has the skills or who’s in a much better place than we are. 

But that’s an erroneous thought because it’s not true. Allah(swt) has given us the opportunity again and again, over and over.

The greatest opportunity in my entire life and I searched for a  good number of years, is understanding the Science of the Nafs.

The Science of the Nafs is spirituality, psychology, and it’s physiology. 

The number one reason the opportunity is there for you is that you have the Science of the Nafs.

Those of you who are listening to the podcast, I get your messages about how it’s transforming your life. 

Allah (swt) is the one that facilitates all this. This is Divine Guidance so that’s your opportunity.

The third thing you need is to master the essential core skills.

We do that in the Muslim Life Coach Institute, through teaching you how to develop more, how to grow more, and how to be more.

It impacts your whole life. We focus on transforming ourselves from our inner core.

The problem for most of us is the challenges that we have and the obstacles that get in our way. 

We get trapped in our minds and emotions and we haven’t understood how to change that. 

A lot of times we think that the mind is the problem but it’s not. The content of your mind is the problem. 

But you can change it. 

The Science of the Nafs programme teaches you how to coach yourself, master your mind and emotions, and transform your life and relationships. 

Change is always possible because Allah (swt), your Creator, the One who creates all of this, has given you the ability to make those changes happen. 

Giving up is the only real failure.

When you’re tired of not having control over your life and are ready to transform, that’s the right moment. 

This is what we’re taught in the Sunnah. We’re people of change and growth, and it’s a continuous journey of development, one tiny step at a time.

Allah is always there to support you on this journey. 

Focus on you. So say yes to yourself and say no to everything else.

Make your life happen.  

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About the Author: Abdul Shahid – Master Coach Trainer & Therapist of Professional Life Coaches, pioneering The Science of the Nafs Psychology model for healing, transformation and peak performance. Specialist in Mind health, wealth and mastery using this Quran and sunnah based Spiritual Psychology.